Reiki and the Law of Attraction. Loving Starts With You First....

I come across something interesting today. Reiki, and the Law of Attraction.

Well, I am sure most of us have somehow of rather, heard about the Law of Attraction. The like-minded  tend to attract another like-minded, and then everything seems to "gel" and "fall-into-place" the way things should be.  Things can be really simple. It's just that most of us are busy with so many other commitments and work...the modern society literally squeeze everything out of us, leaving us with nothing but STRESS. I have been through that, still going through it...mind you, but help is available.

It is crucial that we possess the right mindset and attitude if we want our relationship to progress fine and well. Loving starts with you. You have to love yourself first before you love someone else. How can loving yourself help your relationship? We have to begin by loving ourselves first. Unless you love yourself, it will be tough for you to love another person wholeheartedly.  A lot of times our relationship and family life have to take a back seat and suffer ...without us even realizing it.

When you love yourself and love what you contribute to a relationship, it affects how you view things. Loving yourself means recognizing that you are a good person. Loving yourself allows you to forgive yourself of mistakes and to take them as opportunities to learn. It helps you accept yourself, flaws and all.

The problem is many of us are in a "caught in a rut" situation. We have no time to stop...actually stop and be quiet, to think and to connect with ourselves, even for a moment. Or is it true that we don't even have a moment to stop?  Or perhaps we don't even KNOW how to stop?

If you are in this situation, you may want to download this FREE book. My friend, Judith Conroy, a Reiki Master, gave me the permission share her book here. We know that it’s no secret that it takes knowledge, dedication, and effort to learn ways to manage your stress and improve your life…and it takes you to make that 1st move....Go on,....Download your FREE copy of Reiki and The Law of Attraction here.  
 

Can a Fabulous Self-Esteem Boost Your Confidence, and then Enhance Your Relationship?

I feel pretty good today :) I just had a phone conversation with a dear friend Lynn. Well, perhaps I should her story here a little bit here .........

About a month again, Lynn called me and said "I am feeling really bad. I don't like the way I look, I hate the way I talk, I hate my hairstyle...I hate everything about myself!  What should I do,Charine? I know Derek loves me, but I just feel that I am not good enough for him! What should I do?"

Can you relate to Lynn? She has really low self-esteem, no confidence, she jerks whenever her boyfriend touches her ...basically her extreme low self-esteem is affected her relationship and controlling her life! Now, Lynn is a dear friend of mine. I value her friendship more than anything, and I really want her to be happy.  Well, I am no self-esteem nor personal-development expert, but I DO KNOW this..... Having a good and fabulous self-esteem is extremely important in life!

I started searching and asked around for help, and ended up with this e-book....Fabulous Self-Esteem, authored by Amy Twain, a self-improvement coach.

I felt that what Lynn could do was a boost toward accepting, liking and loving herself better.  As I read through

Beautiful Love and Marriage Quotes...

Howdy! I chanced upon three great love and marriage quotes today. As I was reading them, I felt that these quotes are simply simple yet practical. Here you go, I would love to share them with all of you.

Keep your eyes wide open before marriage, half shut afterwards. ~Benjamin Franklin 
My thoughts ...Gosh! This is so true, I thought to myself. As much as happily married I am, I must say that there is a lot of efforts and work put in between my husband and I to make the marriage work. In short, we really have to have our eye 'half shut' after marriage, and harmony will come along upon that.  ;)

The more you invest in a marriage, the more valuable it becomes. ~Amy Grant
My thoughts: A marriage is basically a joint-venture between two individuals. Personally I can relate so much to this quote as well. Imagine how it would be if my beloved husband comes home to an empty home everyday, with me either busy working or socializing elsewhere.

How To Get Your Ex Back and Set Your Relationship Back on Track - "Opening Move" Tip

Hi. Are you here because you are looking for a way to get your ex back, and set your relationship back on track?

Well, I wish we would have met under better circumstances. But please, hang on there!  Don't give up on your relationship, not just yet!  If a dear friend come and confide in me in his or her relationship, I would not hesitate to introduce him to TDub, a relationship visionary. Well let me see, he is in a way kindda lay-back, doesn't shave as often as he should, BUT then again, we don't judge a book by its cover!  TDub has helped many people (more than 50,000 people) in more than 77 countries to get their love life back again!

To make it easy for you, I have included TDub's video here. It's an "Opening Move" tip for you, the first step to getting your ex back. Watch it, and if you find it helpful, click on here to watch his 2nd video in his website.




If you like what you have just watched, click here to watch his 2nd video.

Take care over there, ok.

4 Positive Signals that Shows Your Boyfriend Still Loves You.

Hello there. Are you here because you have doubts about your relationship with your boyfriend?

Please....I want to assure you that it's perfectly normal for you to feel that way. We are human after all. All these doubts and thoughts were in between my ears once upon a time too!

Hmm..I believe I can help you out here. Look out for these 4 positive signals. These signals should answer your question "Does my boyfriend still love me?", and that will give you a pretty good idea of your beau's feelings towards you. Stick that antenna of yours high up and stay alert!

1. He Cares About How You Feel.
Does your boyfriend constantly check with you on your feelings and emotions? Does he show interest if you are happy, upset or any of your emotional well-being? If he does, there you are, you are ok. He loves you definitely, because if he doesn't, he would not be bothered with how you are feeling.

2. He Surprises You With Little Gifts.

Does your beau surprise you with little gifts? Is he paying attention to the things that you want, or the things that you like, and getting them for you? This can be a clear signal for you, highlighting how he feels about you. If he buys and surprises you with little gifts all the time, you are be rest assured; he simply adores you! 

3. He Hates Break-Up Talk

The doubt about your boyfriend may be incurred due to the conversations the two of you had. If both of you have talked about breaking up, it can be easy to feel he doesn't love you. You really need to look into the substance of your conversation; to understand how you should take the conversation.

Does the conversation topic bother your boyfriend? If he doesn't like thinking about the idea of breaking up with you, he still loves you.

4. He's Planning for the Future

One of the easiest ways to calm these fears is when you notice your boyfriend includes you in his future. If your boyfriend is planning his future and you are in these plans, it's obvious. He loves you. He would not think about you and consider you in his future plans if he did not love you.

These 4 signals can more or less give you a good indication of how your boyfriend feels. However, if you are still in doubt despite the positive signals, I guess you may need to have a serious talk with him about his feelings, and about your relationship. You can proceed with a healthy positive relationship only if you have clear all these doubts.

How Do I Know if My Boyfriend Loves Me? 

The Relationship Solution to Get Your Ex Back

Hello there...how are you？ You are here probably looking for a solution to protect your marriage, or to get your ex back. Are you struggling in a relationship with your partner? Well, I wish we have met under better circumstances. Well, if you are struggling in your relationship, here's something that may help.

TW Jackson, known as TDub by his friends, has helped more than 50,000 people over 77 countries in salvaging their relationship. Well, he is kind of a lay-back sort of a guy, and he is the man behind one of the most downloaded relationship advisory e-book. His e-book provides different ways and solutions to people who want to stop the impending breakup or divorce. Therefore, even if a person is in an utmost hopeless position, something can still be done to save the relationship.

I reckon that you meet TDub Jackson in person. Watch his videos. There are 2 videos in his website that may give you an advice or two that would be helpful to help you get your ex back.

Tips for Troubled Marriage: Suggestions to Improve Husband-Wife Relationships

by Brian Tubbs, Feb 9, 2008. Suite 101.com

If you feel trapped in a troubled marriage or buried in marriage problems, this article is for you. While it won't save your marriage, it may provide you with enough tips to point you in the right direction. By putting these tips into practice, your marriage can be on the road to recovery and reconciliation.

Decide to Love Your Spouse

This may seem basic, but the first thing you must do in a troubled marriage is to love your spouse. Don't feel like you're in love anymore? You feel like your marriage problems have caused you fall out of love? Well, then, love your spouse anyway. 

Christian author and marriage counselor Gary Smalley declares: "Love is not an emotion, love is not a feeling, love is not happen-stance. Love is a decision!" This isn't to say that such a decision will further trap you in a loveless marriage. On the contrary, it positions your marriage to kindle the feelings you crave. Feelings will follow your decisions and actions.

Forgive Your Spouse

This may be the hardest step, but it's critical to salvaging a troubled relationship. Do you feel that your spouse has neglected you or hurt you? If so, you must forgive him or her.

Read the rest of the article here.