The Relationship Solution to Get Your Ex Back

Hello there...how are you？ You are here probably looking for a solution to protect your marriage, or to get your ex back. Are you struggling in a relationship with your partner? Well, I wish we have met under better circumstances. Well, if you are struggling in your relationship, here's something that may help.

TW Jackson, known as TDub by his friends, has helped more than 50,000 people over 77 countries in salvaging their relationship. Well, he is kind of a lay-back sort of a guy, and he is the man behind one of the most downloaded relationship advisory e-book. His e-book provides different ways and solutions to people who want to stop the impending breakup or divorce. Therefore, even if a person is in an utmost hopeless position, something can still be done to save the relationship.

I reckon that you meet TDub Jackson in person. Watch his videos. There are 2 videos in his website that may give you an advice or two that would be helpful to help you get your ex back.

Communication is the key to any good relationship....

Today I came across an intriguing article with the title, "How Can I Save A Bad Relationship"? 

I got a little confused when I read that. I pondered, and wondered why would anyone want to save a bad relationship that brings more misery than joy. Instead, why not improve the relationship and make it good?  If both parties in the relationship expressed a wish to improve things, and are willing to commit and work on it, wouldn't that be better? In this scenario, you are not saving a rotten bad relationship; in fact, you'll be turning a bad relationship around and make it great!  Isn't that a zillion times better?!

Now, how do we do that?  Hmm...let me pen down my 2 cents....

1. Honesty and Maturity!

First in the list, I think what we need is total honestly and high level maturity.

Let's face it, nobody can escape the ups and downs in relationships. With that in mind, we need two mature people to be able to have real heart-to-heart discussions about the root of the problems. If both are honest and mature enough to accept responsibility for  their part of the problems, then there will be a really good chance that your relationship will grow deeper and stronger.

2. Crucial to Find Ways to Communication.

Once the two of you have decided that you are willing to try, the next thing you must do is to find better ways to communicate. More often than not, in many relationships, one party gets upset and yells at the other person; who will in turn just shut off and tune out their partner. The situation worsens over time, nobody wins and both of you gets miserable.  

3. True Communication Is Needed.

Now, what exactly is true communication? 

Save Your Relationship With These 3 Counterintuitive Techniques

Hi there! I received the below article by email from a friend this morning. Thought it might be informative, so here it is...I'm blogging it down.  It's a bit technical...but really practical if put to use.

Many a times, trying to save your relationship can be a very difficult thing to do. There is always the worry and concern that you'll make one wrong move, and lose the person you love forever. Unfortunately, what feels like the right thing to do, is often wrong. Most times we should follow the 'counterintuitive path'. When we feel like calling is when we should stay cool instead. When we feel like pouring our hearts out is when we should put a lid on it.

As a warning, the techniques you're about to discover you may have never seen before and at first glance may look an feel wrong, but have been proven time and again to be effective in even what seems the most complicated situations.

Counterintuitive Technique #1

The first technique you need to use is to agree with and accept the fact that you have broken up with your ex. This can be very difficult to do and the chances are good that you will have a bit of an internal battle before you're able to do so.

It can definitely help to understand why you need to accept the breakup, and how it can help you get back together. The main reason is because you need to give your ex time to respect and miss you again. The chances are that they are mad or upset with you at the moment, especially if you've beem nagging them about getting back together.

Counterintuitive Technique #2

The second technique you need to use is to cut off all communication. You're probably about ready to close your browser right now! Hold on, because this technique really does work. It helps you to accept the breakup and is the action that shows your ex you are serious.

By not communicating, you are allowing your ex time to miss you and time to get over the reasons for breaking up. Give yourselves some quiet time. This space will be good for your mental health as well, and will help you to think clearly. It also sets you up for the next technique.

Counterintuitive Technique #3

The next step is to plan an event where you two can reconnect. But there are many critical steps in between you can not leave out!  You definitely have to do this the right way.

You can find all details of all these counter intuitive and unconventional steps to save your marriage in TW Jackson's (aka TDub) e-book. Watch his videos here and get informed on the right moves and unconventional strategies....