Take baby steps to get you from Break Up to make up.

Nugget: Take baby steps to get you from Break Up to make up.

What it means: More often than not, guys and girls try to take too big a step when trying to patch things up with their ex.

They want their ex to 'take them back' or 'forgive them' all at ONCE. (Do you think that is possible??)

Look, these are HUGE leaps!  So, please, don't push it too hard.

What may be more effective in the re-bonding process are itsy bitty steps.

Try grabbing coffee together...it is a much smaller step than 'getting back together'...and even smaller than 'going on a date'.

Still...

Grabbing coffee may still be too big a step, might try starting with a smaller step?

In fact...many a times...taking a step 'back' is the best course of action.

Watch a Video here that explains how.

 

What Cheating Men Really Want....

Hello there. I received this gem by email this morning. Here you go, it's too good an info not to blog it down. 

Nugget: What men want more than a pretty face or teeny waist is to be ADMIRED by their partner.

What it means: Many women believe men have an affair with the 'secretary' because she's hot, young or has some 'physical' attribute she lacks.

The truth is most men that have affairs are CRAVING admiration.

At home, many men feel nagged.

At the office, they are the 'hero'.

If a man doesn't feel admired at home, he becomes easier prey for any woman that makes him feel respected and admired.

When a woman makes her man feel admired she cloaks him in 'anti-slut' armor because most men would do just about anyting to NOT to lose her admiration.

Do you find the above nugget useful?

You may want to have more ideas and solutions on how to save a relationship or marriage under such circumstances. TDub, the author whose ebook had helped over 50,000 people to reconcile has included some great videos in his website. You may like to watch the 2 videos in his website here.

Good luck!

Premature Reconciliation.

Hi there. I received the below "Nugget" from TDub in my mailbox, thought I might just blog it here for you guys.

An interesting Nugget entited:-

PREMATURE RECONCILIATION.

What it means: When a guy or gal is trying to win back the affections of their ex...many times they start to make headway...but then go too far when the ex shows signs of reattachment.

For example...Tom calls Sally and they set up a little coffee talk...and it goes well...BUT rather than leaving after 20 minutes or so...Tom continues and tries to move forward too fast. And even if Sally brings up getting back together first...Tom's response should NOT be YIPEE! He'd be much better off staying calm and saying something like..."Let's take it slow and see how it goes." Women I email and talk with...often make the mistake of 'sleeping with their ex' too soon. (classic Premature Reconciliation)

You might be wondering who is TDub. Well, his actual name is TW Jackson, but his friends call him TDub. He authored one of the most downloaded relationship advisory e-book over 77 countries around the world, and has helped many couples reconcile. A friend once told me that his e-book provides great reading and lots of eye opening ideas on how you can reconcile with your ex slowly but surely.  

Perhaps you may like to meet him in person, and benefit from his advice too. Watch his 2 videos here.